Little bear

Last entry I’d forgotten to say a few days before I was reading Good Morning P.B Bear to Mago. This has pictures of a large teddy bear/kid. In the middle of my reading Mago put out his little index finger and placed it on a teensy teddy bear, much smaller than the little boy bear, hiding in the image. I forgot that tiny bear hid in each image. Mago is smarter than me in some ways already.

I have a little bear I read a story of a little bear to and the little bear in the story has a little bear. The kids’ kids’ kid effect makes me think too soon of being a great-grandfather, let alone a grandfather.

Tia said two days ago that Mago was petting the lioness stuffed animal in his crib after he woke up, and that when she put him down for one nap he lay on his back, well awake and contended, and said “Ma-mu” and that was that.

He frequently tries to make the rolling “g” sound I sometimes make for a lion growl and it comes out a more breathy “hhhhhhhhh.”

Sounds, updates

Here are some audio files (plus some other ones) of him I recently said I’d post.

First here he is ooing and cooing I think a month or so ago.. at mabye 7 or 8 months old (~ 1 minute).

And here he is with me bearing zurbets, and growling and grunting back and forth with me (~ 2.5 minutes). In one part you can hear him make a very low repeated chest grunt in a duet with me. This and the following are all at 9 months old –

Singing (~ 2 minutes), bouncing (~ 1.5 minutes), and exhuberantly bearing my tickling (~ 1 minute).

He has four front teeth – two top and bottom. He has had the extra two since.. two weeks or so? We thought just a third was coming in and the fourth came really fast.

Yesterday he bit my nose and cheek affectionately. When he wakes up sometimes he’ll go for the stuffed animals just out of reach on the shelf beside his crib (we’re going to try to get them in reach) – recently he was pulling at a stuffed frog between the bars, clacking it’s hard plastic eyeball against the crib repeatedly.

He called for me today saying “da-da.” “Ma-ma” is very frequent. When Tia brings him to me on mornings that I sleep in a bit later he grins and pants like a puppy and sometimes wrestles my head. He does the same to Tia when I bring him to her in the morning.

.. he kicks his legs a lot and wiggles all his limbs when he’s very excited.

He enjoys walks in the stroller – just contentedly looks at everything.

The Elf, the Swiffer, and the Lion

The day before yesterday Tia called me at work and related this. He was on the kitchen floor – which my siblings-in-law very charitably changed from an old olive green carpet (in a kitchen?!) to a marbled brown-grey vinyl floor last Christmas – fussing from boredom and wanting to be held and played with while she cleaned it with a swiffer. When she was done she turned around to do something else and the fussing stopped. She turned back around and his face was planted on the floor, contentedly licking the sweet swiffer flavor on the floor. She stopped him from this and went back to what she was doing and it happened again.

She relates that yesterday she was Christmas shopping and picked out a large lion stuffed animal for him to play with. Usually he’s happy to play with things in the store and put them back, but when she put this back he made some dispondent babble, so she gave it back for keeps (to buy). He then nuzzled and slept on the lion, sleeping while she was shopping, which is a first.

I haven’t said this, but I can no longer withhold it: He is so cute! I want him to freeze for ten years so I can have him just as he is now. .. in an Eden where he never learns or grows. Every time I despair that his cuteness has reached the apex and it will go downhill from here, he defies expectation!

The last two nights I came home too late to see him to bed, and I can tell he misses me – the usual morning happiness was mingled with cathartic babble and fussing. Tia was preening in the bathroom while I slept in in the bed, and he wandered from his toys in his room to the bathroom with alternate happy and fussy babble and calls. I came to him and he beamed and laughed, but when I picked him up he leaned for his mother, then pled for us both: “Ma-ma.. Pba-pba.”

Brief update

He crawled a short distance the day before yesterday (as different from the “army crawl” or scoot) and is starting to sometimes do it briefly. He is still a mild, happy, often beaming baby who also blathers fun nonsense, growls, and coos at pretty things like lights. Recently he was having a great fun time wrestling and rolling around with a large stuffed bear animal, and he still often beams when he sees large creatures that are or could be alive.

I think it was the day before that he woke in the morning crying and calling “Ma-ma! Ma-ma!”

He laughs when I “zurbet” his naked belly, toss him up and catch him, or make silly sounds.

Recently I was chanting something to his amusement between zurbets:

Baby Mago
Baby Mago
Where you gonna go when you go, go, go?
(Poop!)

It occured to me that this works perfectly with the Winnie the Pooh song, and is also an innapropriate (and therefore desirable) pun on the bear’s name.

He was also singing (or ernestly attempting it) recently with me – I recorded both these things and I’ll post them in a bit.

Things and WILD THINGS

He scoots around a lot, handles and examines every object he can get in hand, and also tastes and examines with his mouth. His kisses are bites or suction cup grips on your face. He grabs noses and teeth and puts his fingers in both. Family and friends tell me he’s mild and happy.

He often hyperventilates and grins and flaps his arms wildly when he sees me after he hasn’t for a while. He smiles back broadly at me if I can get his attention (he’s usually examining something near or distant).

He’s particularly interested in handles, levers, and the like.

He’s very interested in other babies his size and will greet them with a coo or high call.

Tia says he was oohing and aahing at Christmas decorations in a store.

As he was crawling on my chest a recent morning (the 14th actually) I said “I love you [Mago].” He looked at me and replied in a low, rhasping, demonic voice: “HHRRRRAAAAAAAAAARR!” I think this came from my making that sound for the monsters in the book WHERE THE WILD THINGS ARE a few days before then.

He speaks sign language for “light” a lot while gazing at lights.

His first tooth (on his lower jaw in the front) came in about a week ago.

He pays close attention to unusual sounds and often laughs at sudden funny ones, and gestures too.

He sits up on his own.

Ambition

Two days ago he was at the foot of the treadmill in one corner of the basement room, and Tia was at the computer at the other corner, and as Tia tells it he scooted with a look of great determination across to her.

(Take that, determinism! Determine this!)

He started scooting .. ? two weeks ago?

This morning he was kissing his mommy.

Gallery 6B and Exploring Mythology

[This is posted long after its written date and inserted here]

Following is something I wrote for an essay contest my dad sent out to his children. The prize for it was his white Chevy Blazer which he replaced with some newer and hence dandier SUV, a KIA Sorento (I think). You read that right. The whole premise of writing this, then, was completely mad. But I played a harp to the madness.

This piece is mythology – fiction which is/should be true; I’ve made it true somewhat. It is accompanied by photographs of Mago which inspired it. He’s six months old in these. I add comments after.


We always stop to look at wildlife and impressive displays of nature. We go to wilder areas in our city to find these. But we also go far beyond our city into wild and rugged terrain.

My boy especially likes ducks. He would try to eat any duck alive if he could get one in hand, and I wonder if they would know it’s because he loves them. Instead he claws at the upholstery of our Chevy Blazer and eats the little bits of it he digs out. He’s eaten grass, dirt, twigs and bugs from all of the wilderness we’ve explored. We’ve seen snakes, lizards, all kinds of birds, marsupials, jack rabbits, goats, sheep, deer, mustangs, coyotes, and moose.

If there’s not room anywhere else, I cram people into the trailer with the horses. They can get injured back there when the horses kick out of nervousness or when we take a bad turn, but that doesn’t always happen. On the horses we ride much more quickly into remote, wild places. Everything we take traveling has been a present to us – our horses, our blazer, our camp gear, our hiking and navigating equipment. Life is unfair to everyone except me.


This made my dad weepy and several commented that they loved it. Unfortunately it didn’t win the contest – I was informed that it contributed to world literature, but that my brother’s far more succinct, to the point, and amusing entry won. His was two sentences: “Ahem. White boy, gimme dat car dammit!”

Mago and Me

Yesterday I played with him saying: “A-bug-a-bug-a-bug-a-bug-a-bug-a-BOO!” – each time the BOO! being a higher pitch, and he would laugh.

Last night I came to him sleeping and whispered “You’re a good boy.” He awakened, looked me in the eyes, smiled, and went back to sleep.

First email

Dear Daddy,
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Love,
[Mago Elf Liam]

Recent things, Naming, Funny Babble 2

Erm.. haven’t kept up on the lad in writing.

Some maybe almost month, or so, ago his mother presented him a Mother Goose book to begin reading to him, and he made an exultant sound and dance when he saw Mother Goose on the cover. Babies know. Stories for babies are primaeval.

In recent weeks (or so?) he was laughing at Tia’s oldest sister and stepmother, when they babysat – I envy not having witnessed, and wonder if my sister didn’t when I was the first to make her first baby (the first grandchild) laugh. .. that seems somehow like a very monumental accomplishment now that I think of it; except that I didn’t do anything, I only came to her crib, and she laughed and smiled at me. ..very much like my boy, now that I think on it.

I’ve since seen him laugh with his aunt, whom I dare say has a gift for invoking delight in babies and children (I think my wife has the same gift relating to her neices and nephews). He openly pealed and giggled, repeatedly, the two of them just looking at each other. It made me laugh hard watching, and he’s since done this for me occasionally when I make a dog bark, or at other random times, but it’s worn off.. I think I must need to just be inventive, because nothing has worked for a while. But he smiles at me, and his mother, all the time, which is wonderful.

Two sundays ago I named him under the authority of the Priesthood, which is an ordinance in the LDS church, and then blessed him under the direction of the Spirit. The words and ideas of the blessing came with great certainty. The whole of the blessing was to incline the baby to live a life that will lead him back to his Heavenly Father from whom he recently came, bless him with gifts of faith, hope, and charity for the course, and to return with a wife and all his family. That is God’s plan for each of us, and God’s Spirit has witnessed it to me. I wrote soon after of the timeless sensation in the blessing:

I felt a strong connection back to Heavenly Father in giving this (which I am very grateful for), to a place where time stands still, yet thoughts of the future proceed in such certainty as causing by the very thoughts the events to occur; as if traveling forward in time.

Last morning (I’m posting this past midnight), he awakened us by saying:

Mimba

Followed by –

Boo? Gweh?

Late tonight I woke him up (a breach of decency) because I felt bad coming home so late and not seeing him today. After I cuddled him a while (he was mildly bothered and sleepy but cuddly) he began complaining, and said

I wa ma ma!

Which sounded stunningly like “I want my mom”, if that isn’t what it was.