Nem’s Endearments

Every night, Nem-nem (now 5) wants a hug as she goes to bed, and she then methodically, meticulously gives me an Eskimo kiss, and kisses and butterfly kisses on my chin, cheeks, nose, and forehead.

She’ll then always insist that I sing a lullaby, which almost invariably is “[Nem-nem’s] Lullaby,” which is my adoption of Highland Cathedral, as described here (broken links/media at that page as I write this).

She’s taken to correcting Mother, that she should call me Alexander, not Alex, and she can spell that name out.

Speechless.

Great Elf William

Me: “Great Elf William, will you forgive me if I eat downstairs? I want to do some writing.”

Mago looks confused. “Great Elf William?”

“I gave you that nick-name at my blog. I call you Mago Elf Liam.”

“Oh. . . . Elf?”

I laugh. “It’s kinda silly.”

“So does ‘Mago’ mean ‘Great?”

“Yes.”

Indeed.

(He’s halfway to eight, as I write this.)

SeptiCanada

[I have looked up the prefix “septi” since this exchange, and oops!–I was in error. “Septi” is a combining form that means seven, not five. “Penta” is a combining form for “five.”]

Mago, to Tia: You measured Canada?
Me: Yes. It was five.
Mago: Five?
Me: Yes.
Mago: Five what?
Me: Five septiCanadas.
Mago: What’s a septiCanada?
Me: If you take the area of Canada, and divide it by five, you have a septiCanada.
Mago: Wait, so when you were five, you took a map of Canada and measured it–
Me, laughing: No–
Mago: and you drew five lines through it–
Me, laughing: No–
Mago: and you called each one of them a septiCanada?
Me, laughing: No. I made that up just now.

Love, A Building on Fire

I don’t know how I missed this Talking Heads song. It’s hard to imagine I never heard it (even for my crowded, unorganized, largely unrecognized collection). One day it just lit me up–even while I’m not entirely certain I understand it.

When my love stands next to your love/I can’t define love/when it’s not love/which is my face/which is a building/which is on fire!

I played it and sang it to the kids and Tia. The kids especially cracked up.

(I later learned that Mago thought I wrote and recorded this song. I wish.)

Just now I had this conversation with Nem when I played the song:

Nem: Sing it!
Me: No, I want to eat.
Nem (cries and pouts) Nooo, *you* sing it!
Me: I’m sorry! I didn’t mean to break your heart!
Nem: Okay, I’ll get ready to laugh.

Children and Toys

As I carried Nem-nem on my shoulders recently, on a walk:

Nem-nem: “All children have toys.”
Me: “No, not all children do. I’m sad about that. And some children have sad things in thier lives. Even so sad that some people don’t want to talk about them.”
Nem: “Like they don’t have computers? . . . Or thier parents don’t have computers?”

Your life is more good than you know, Nem. I’m grateful.